Monday, May 19, 2008

STOP FEELING JEALOUS AND APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE

This is one topic i have been trying to avoid for a long time, but i think it is a high time i wrote something about it.Jealousy is a feeling just like fear or anger.Though not all people are jealous.some people are jealous because they dont have things or anything what they wish what you have...simple.The more somebody gets mature in day to day affair,prosperity follows.Generally if you have worked hard in order to prosper and the prosperity follows,you are likely not to be jealous.Moreover those who avoid working and or putting more effort are the most jealous ones.However there are some frustrated elements who pretend having put there best and always complain about others faster growth.Infact, jealousy like other emotions doesnt come from nowhere, it comes from a feeling that someone needs aren't met or someone feels threatened.People who don't feel threatened don't feel jealous.
So. the question is, why are you jealous? Jealousy is an unusual emotion, in that it's a feeling that's often built out of other feelings, such as fear or anger or insecurity. What is it that triggers the jealousy, and more important, why? When you think about the things that cause you to feel jealous, what's the first emotional reaction that flashes through your head--fear? Anger? Sadness? Rejection? Loss? What underlies those feelings--fear of loss ? Fear of being insufficient? Anger at someone else moving in on your territory? All of these? None of these?
Your true self can be known only by systematic experimentation, and controlled only by being known. I believe that emotions, though they are not rational, do usually have a reason behind them--they are the ancient part of your brain, the part that does not have language, trying to communicate with you.If you are a jealous person out there,know that you are a looser and you dont appreciate what you are given in life.It's immature and childish."Grow up"

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

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